The truth is, we women are quite simple creatures. It is men who are such mysteries.
Because we can never really figure out what they really want.
KNOW THE SECRET, RULE THEIR HEARTS:
What are his secret desires? If you know the answer to this question, you could not just get a man interested in you, but keep him interested as well.
It is the secret to making him fall more in love with you, every day.
BE IRRESISTIBLE, TODAY AND EVERY DAY:
The problem with a relationship is that it is a work in progress. Always. So, what could seem to be perfect today might suddenly come apart at the seams tomorrow. If he is interested in you today, it does not guarantee that he will not continue to be interested in the future.
What if you had the secret formula to being irresistible to the man of your dreams? What if you knew how you could continue to be the woman of his dreams?
This is what Be Irresistible, a relationship program claims to teach you. Described in a step-by-step manner in the book What Men Secretly Want by James Bauer. Let us see what the book offers you in a detailed review.
WHAT IS WHAT MEN SECRETLY WANT?
Simply put, it is a user’s guide to the male mind. Written by James Bauer, a relationship specialist, it explains how a man’s mind works. How men think. What they really want, deep inside. And how you can use this knowledge to ensure that your relationship works.
It is this understanding that makes all the difference between a relationship that works and one that fails.
There are some women who have an instinctual knowledge of the male mind. I am sure you have met many of them in your life. These are the women who seem confident in their relationships and everything just seems to happen right for them. They are not necessarily smarter, more attractive and in any way different from other women.
On the other hand, there are some women for whom nothing seems to work. They might be attractive, smart, intelligent, extremely caring… but it doesn’t really matter. It is as if every relationship they try to get into is cursed to fail.
It is not that these women are unlucky in their relationships. It is just that they do not understand the inner workings of a male mind.
This is the lack that this book aims to remedy.
Let us see what the book contains.
THE FIRST SECTION: THE SINGLE MOST POWERFUL FACTOR
What does a man really want? Love?
Yes. But he wants something else as much.
Respect.
The single most powerful factor is respect. Your man needs to know that his woman respects him. And it should be evident to him all the time. Only when he feels that a woman respects him does a man open up his heart to her.
This section will explore many of your actions, which unconsciously tells a man that you do not respect him. It will also teach you how to change your actions in such a way that he feels quite the opposite.
THE SECOND SECTION: YOUR SECRET BAROMETER FOR SUCCESS
This section delves deeper than the first section. It goes deeper into the reasons why a man craves respect from his woman. It will help you understand this drive and utilize it to your advantage.
This section also analyzes the importance of appearance.
There is an inherent need in all of us to look our best. To appear in the best possible light. Well, did you know that this could be one of the biggest hindrances to a continuing relationship?
This section explores in depth the various psychological triggers that can make or break a relationship.
THE THIRD SECTION: DOUBLE HIS DESIRE FOR A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP
It is common knowledge that men are commitment phobic. They might love going out with you. They might even love you. But when it comes to making the relationship permanent, see how fast they run.
This section explains why men try to avoid commitment. It also shows what to do when a man is trying to pull out of a relationship because he hates commitment.
THE FOURTH SECTION: STOP BEING INTERESTING AND GET INTERESTED
Who is the relationship about? You?
Wrong. The relationship is about both of you. Together. However, most women have the tendency to make the relationship about themselves. This could be the death of the relationship.
A true relationship is about give and take. It is about talking, but listening too. Taking, but giving too. It is about sharing. In this section, Bauer explains how a relationship can be built on a foundation of mutual respect and sharing.
WHY IS IT SUPPOSED TO WORK?
Blame it on evolution, or biology. The male brain has been designed to work in a particular way. It’s
inherent in their programming and they are not aware of it. Needless to say, we women find their behavior inexplicable and frustrating.
Now the best thing about this program is this – it uses the same programming to a woman’s advantage. It does not make a man do what he doesn’t want to do. Rather it encourages his real nature. Gives in to the very stuff he is made of.
This is why the techniques mentioned in this book works. And the man is not even aware of it!
THE AUTHOR:
Who is James Bauer? And why should you believe him?
Well, he is a relationship expert who has been working with couples and singles for decades now. And as a counsellor, he has made a deep study of the psychology of the male mind. How it interacts romantically. How it builds relationships.
James was struck by the fact that so many relationships fail because of some extremely simple things. And how with a little knowledge women can perform so much better in relationships.
It is because of this realization that he created the Be Irresistible program. To help women achieve better success in their relationships.
DO YOU NEED TO READ THIS BOOK?
Actually, every woman needs to read this book. Even if you are happily married to the man of your dreams, it would not hurt to understand how his mind works, would it?
However, this book is a must read for certain women. For instance:
Women who are in a relationship with commitment phobic men.
Women who get taken for granted in their relationships.
Women who feel that they are giving more to the relationship than they are getting out of it.
Women with a history of a string of relationships that started out well but went nowhere.
WHAT MAKES THIS BOOK SPECIAL?
To put it simply, because it is so simple.
It does not use a very complicated formula or psychological mumbo jumbo. In fact, if you read it, you will realize that most of it is common sense. If you had been exposed to a lot of men while growing up (suppose you had four brothers, for instance), you would already know the principles that the book talks about.
This book also does not ask you to change, or pretend you to be something different from what you really are. It just teaches you a few very simple things that can make your man want you.
So, what are you waiting for? Read it. It is just a book. You owe your relationship that much.
